Have you ever found yourself thinking is there any way I can be more interesting to girls? If you do ask yourself this question you are in the right place.
The good news is you don’t need to have the most handsome face in the room nor the richest to be interesting to girls, your attitude and how you present yourself as a man plays a bigger role, which is what we are going to discuss in this article.
In this article, I am going to give you 8 actionable steps that will help you highlight your potential and be more interesting to women.
1. Start a Conversation on Common Ground
As a guy, you are expected to start a conversation especially if the girl is not talkative or not completely into you, but that doesn’t mean you should start a conversation on any random topic, you need to find something both of you can relate to and start a conversation there.
Finding common ground can be hard when you just met the girl and you know nothing about her, in that case, you can start a conversation on a broad topic that both of you can relate to, for example, movies, most people watch movies.
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Once you start a conversation on a broad topic you can figure out what her interest is in that topic and before you know it you get into a deeply interesting conversation.
The more you spend time discussing a topic you both are interested in the more she became interested in you.
2. Show Curiosity
Most women like attention, when you show curiosity and ask for more details about the story it shows she has your full attention and you are interested in her story, that is a good way to keep her talking and be more open with you.
Avoid closing in on different opinions, or just listening to her with no relevant comment or asking questions, that is one sure way of being boring and not interesting.
Being curious shows you are open to new knowledge and gives her the feeling of confidence when she is with you.
In addition to that, asking questions will help you understand her interest better, and the more time she spent talking to you the safer she feels around you which will make you more interested as a person.
3. Convey Your Though and Experience in a Conversation
Expressing your thought and personal experiences in a conversation will make the conversation more engaging and add feelings to the conversation.
When you use “I think” “I feel’ and “I see” in a conversation, it adds an emotion to the conversation which helps in securing her attention to you, that way the interest she has in the story becomes connected to you.
Also, speaking about your personal experience is a good way of making her speak about her own personal experiences and point of view which is a great way of building connection and developing more interest in each other.
4. Learn Fascinating Stories
Did you know that research proves men who can tell a good story are more attractive to women? That shows if you want to be more interesting to a girl you need to learn to be a good storyteller.
And I don’t mean you should read her a book or something, instead have a few fascinating stories ready to share, it could be on any topic that can grab attention, for example, I recently read an article on a tomb discovered in Egypt which is believed to be over 6,000 years, the ancient items discovered in the tomb is very likely to be of interest.
You can also talk about your personal experience on something if you know how to make it interesting.
Let me give you an example, someone asked how would you write “I changed a light bulb” in your resume, and here is an interesting response “Single-handedly managed the successful upgrade and deployment of a new environmental illumination system with zero cost overruns and zero safety incidents”
Even though changing a light bulb is not interesting at all, he managed to make it sound interesting.
5. Ask Questions About Her
Many girls like to speak about themselves, ask easy questions about her lifestyle, interest, and priorities. Not prying questions.
By asking those simple questions you open up an opportunity of discussing about each other and learn about each other without guessing things which could lead to embarrassment.
Also, asking a girl about her shows you are interested in her, and as Dale Carnegie says in How to Win Friends and Influence People, you can make more friends by becoming interested in other people than when you try to get other people interested in you.
To put it simply, showing genuine interest in her life is a good way of making her more interested in you.
6. Be Helpful
Women love to feel cared for and important, if you want to be more interesting to her, offer to help her when she needs it even before she asks.
Help doesn’t have to be with something big, simple things like holding a door for her, offering her your jacket when she is cold, helping with her assignment, etc.
Those little helpful acts make you someone she can rely on, and it gives her a feeling of importance which eventually makes her more interested in you.
7. Learn to Dress Better
No girl likes a poorly dressed man, therefore, highlight your potential by dressing appropriately, based on the occasion and your style.
The way you dress significantly affects how interesting people see you, therefore, learn to dress in the right sized cloth, right color combination, and the right accessories for every occasion.
More: How to Dress Better as a Man.
In addition to the cloth you wear, you also need to take care of personal grooming, which is the best way to maintain a fresh and healthy body.
8. Be Confident in Yourself
Self-confidence is essential to your level of attraction, if you don’t have confidence in yourself you are going to have a hard time being an interesting person.
Your self-confidence plays a big role in how girls perceive you, and generally, if you have high confidence in how you look, how you speak, and how you approach, you are going to give a good first impression.
Related: 8 Dating Tips for Shy Guys.
And when I say confidence, I don’t mean to be arrogant, here is a detailed article on How to Build Self-Confidence.
Conclusion
Those are my 8 simple ways to be more interesting to girls, in addition, learning to be an extremely interesting person takes time and practice, therefore, challenge yourself to meet new people and expose yourself to people you find interesting.
You also need to know that no one will find you interesting until you find yourself interesting, therefore, be confident in yourself before you try to be interesting to other people.
Lastly, I hope you find this article helpful, if you do, make sure to subscribe to our email newsletter to never miss a new lifestyle tip and hacks to live a life of confidence and style.
You can also check out Basic Fashion Rules for Guys and How to Improve Your Appearance as a Man.
