Looking handsome and attractive is more than having a good-looking face or a nice smile or athletic body, it has more to do with how you present yourself as a man.
In this article I am going to show you how to build the right attitude and personality and present yourself to look handsome and attractive as a black man.
Let me ask you a quick question, do you look the opposite of handsome and attractive? If yes here is a little secret.. You are one handsome dude, you just don’t know how to show it.
This article is divided in to three parts which are:
- Developing Fashion and Style
- Grooming
- Attitude and Personality
Ready to up your style and attraction? Let’s dive in.
Developing Fashion and Style
Developing your fashion and style is one of the key points of being handsome and attractive, while there are many ways to develop your fashion and style, here are the best steps to be at the top of the game.
• Develop a Sense of Fashion and Style
How you dress and present yourself contribute a lot to how people perceive you, if your cloth doesn’t fit your body or you have the wrong color combination or may be your shirt is wrinkled nobody will find you attractive, not even yourself.
Even though, you want to look younger than your age you need to avoid dressing like a 16-year-old when you are 40, you will look handsome and attractive dressing for who you are rather than trying to change who you are.
The style you choose whether casual, trendy or professional doesn’t matter, what is important is to have an appropriate style that you are comfortable with and reflect who you are as a person.
• Take Inspiration from Well Dressed Men
As you walk the street keep an eye out for well dressed men, especially people within your age group and similar body size.
The idea is not to copy other people’s style, rather take inspiration, figure out the things that make them well dressed and attractive and how you can make yourself more attractive.
• Adopt a Personal Style Signature
Pick a specific fashion and make it your icon, for example a fashion ring, specific type of watch, haircut, or a unique perfume that will attract attention in a positive way.
Personal Grooming
Personal grooming is the act of cleaning and maintaining parts of the body, which includes skin, hair, fingernails, beard, it can also be referred to as personal care.
Here are the personal care techniques that will make you look at your best and more attractive to people.
• Consistent Skincare Routine
Skincare routine is an organized regular procedure of taking care of your skin to tune up your complexion and keep your skin young and healthy.
Developing a consistent skincare routine is the first important step in personal care, even if you wear the best cloth in a right way nobody will find you attractive if you have a wrinkled, unhealthy and uneven skin tone.
More: Ultimate Guide to Skincare Routine.
The most important steps in skincare routine are cleansing, steaming, exfoliation and moisturizing.
• Consistent Regular Haircut
Having a consistent regular haircut is a key ingredient in looking fresh, when you have a nice haircut people tend to notice the haircut even before they look at your face.
Use hair cream to keep your hair smooth and shiny, but don’t over use hair products and always avoid hair creams with strong scent.
Never go out without combing your hair and make sure your haircut is in order.
• Teeth Whitening
I don’t care how you do it, but make sure your teeth are always so clean and white.
You can use a tooth whitening cream of your choice or even use a homemade teeth whitener if you know how to make one.
You don’t want your teeth ruining your attractive handsome smile.
• Take Care of Your Fingernails
Your fingernails say a lot about your hygiene, if you have unclean fingernails no girl will hold hands with you, even your friends will avoid a handshake with you.
In addition to that, fingernails can reveal a clue about your overall health, rosy tinge and a touch of white here and there on your fingernails can be a sign of disease in your body.
Different girls find different things attractive in men but lack of health and hygiene is not one of them.
• Have Enough Sleep
Sleep is very important for your body and it plays a vital role in how you look, I am not talking about sleeping in a bus, office or school, I am talking about a good night sleep.
When you sleep your body recharge the lost energy from the previous day, when you have enough sleep, you will wake up next day looking fresh, energetic and confident.
• Eat Healthy Food
Adopt a daily healthy eating pattern depending on your type of body and health condition.
Healthy eating pattern will help you stay fit, avoid cavities, have a good complexion and stay energetic every day.
• Take Care of Your Lips
Besides having a shiny white tooth having a soft kissable lip is one of the things every girl appreciates in men.
Use a simple Vaseline or any lip oil you prefer to keep your lips soft and hydrated at all times.
• Care for Your Eyes
Apart from general skincare use an eye cream on the skin around your eyes or any natural eye care to prevent wrinkles and black spots around your eyes.
Attitude and Personality
Your attitude and personality determine how people perceive you, if you have the wrong attitude and personality nothing you wear will make you attractive.
Here are the important tips to help you build the right attitude and personality.
• Build Confidence
The first and most important tip is to build confidence around yourself, dress the way you feel comfortable and be confident about yourself.
Take time to work on your self confidence, that way whatever you wear you will give the impression of fashion and style and people will perceive it.
• Stand Straight
Learn to stand up straight, it shows confidence and also prevent having back problems, apart from that haunching over is not among good looking features.
• Good Eye Contact
I didn’t mean to stare at people, but always look people occasionally in the eye, that indicates confidence and self-assuredness.
• Smile
Smile is a powerful tool that make people comfortable, adopt a smiling habit that shows friendship, happiness and confidence.
If you are not good at smile, take time to learn a simple smile.
• Wear Sunglasses
Wear sunglasses with the right frame for your face when you go out, sun glasses add a stylish look to your outfit, not to mention the protection it gives your eyes.
Conclusion
Think of this article as a blueprint to bring out the handsome guy within yourself, if you read without taking action it won’t help you, make use of it and be a star.
Don’t worry about your appearance, because if you do you will get obsessed and ruin yourself trying to copy other people, be yourself and only adopt style that you are comfortable with.
Lastly, I hope you find this article helpful, if you do, subscribe to our newsletter to never miss a new fashion & style tips and advice.
You can also check out 8 Anti-Aging Workout Routine and 13 Shaving Tips Every Guy Should Know.
That being said.. Stay Fresh and Healthy.
